My sister is going to kill me for posting this picture. {I love you Smelly!}
We had a fun weekend at my mom's house scrapbooking and chatting away. While there, Melanie, Shelby, and I decided to color our hair. Why? Because we can.
I went dark as I did last fall, Melanie went darker to a light brown shade, and Shelby got some pretty blonde highlights.
So, after I got home and Jaysen saw what I had done to my hair THIS time {I change my hair frequently...I always have} I asked him what color he has liked the best. He, of course, tried to give me the "appropriate" answer of...."whatever you like, I like". The problem is that I don't want a politically correct answer. I want the truth. I like looking sassy cute for the hubby. :0) Anyway...after 5 minutes of attempting to drag the truth out of him he finally drops the bombshell...
"I like you better blonde."
What? What? Sigh.
I asked him last year, when I went from blonde to brown if he liked me better blonde or brown. His answer? "You look great both ways." Safe answer huh? If he would have just been honest...we could have avoided the whole month of red....and now to the almost black again. Sigh.
He was concerned I was mad at him after he made his revelation. Mad that he was honest? No. Frustrated that I just dyed my hair chocolate brown and could have dyed it back to blonde if I would have known? YES. Sigh. That's what I get for having such a nice hubby who didn't want to hurt my feelings.
Punk. :0)
He told me not to just go and change it back just because he said he liked it better blonde. I let him know there was no way to go from DARK brown to blonde without ending up with ORANGE hair. So, I am staying dark...for now.
Perhaps I'll go purple next time.....just to teach him a lesson in honesty.
It is always the best policy you know....
{love you Jaysen}
Thursday, September 18, 2008
Honesty is the best policy
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8 comments:
Love that. He is very nice and I love this picture. All of this hair dyeing is reminding me I need to go get mine done, maybe I will try something new, probably not, but maybe!
Fun and Jaysen might like purple..
Your natural color is VERY pretty Ashlee with just some highlights!!
Love you MOM
Ahhh I just went dark too. i am going to just believe my husband and not ask for the truth right now! :)
My hair is really orange, not that light brown color you suggest. I'm going to the salon Saturday to have someone fix it...It's been a lon week looking like a carrot! :o)
I went light for the summer and am thinking of going dark again for the fall. I don't think I will ask Wade for his opinion on this one!
I just went through the same situation with Cody last night! I already have blonde highlights in my hair, but I went in last night and had even more blonde put in. I come home and ask Cody what he thinks, and he said pretty much the same thing as your hubby.
I ask, "Do you like the blonde, or should I have put some brown into it this time?"
He says, "I like your hair both colors."
After several minutes, he finally admits that he likes my hair DARKER! What the heck? Last time I dyed it dark he told me he likes me as a blonde?! Men just can't make up their minds. ;)
I'm sure your hair looks GORGEOUS!
Sorry your hubby doens't like darker hair. I'm sure it looks great!
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